Sex and boundaries

Concrete is a useful product. But concrete can also cause quite a mess. If poured without proper forms and reinforcement it can cause this mess and is difficult and sometimes seemingly impossible to clean up.After it dries it can be cleaned up with much effort and work. Most concrete crews like to be prepared before the truck shows up with the concrete. The crew will look at the plans of what's being built and setup their forms and put the reinforcement in its proper places.
Sex outside the boundaries of marriage is like concrete poured without forms. With these forms (marriage), it can be a benefit. Without forms it can create a mess that is difficult to clean up. Can you imagine a world without boundaries in relation to sex? What would this world be like? Would it be like the world we live in today, a world that thinks to highly of sex?
We are all looking for something that satisfies us. If we have sex with a person and don't get that satisfaction we go looking somewhere else. If we don't get satisfied with someone else we look for other ways to satisfy ourselves.The problem is that no matter where we go (looking in this manner) we will never be satisfied. If we want our every need satisfied we need to look to God to supply that. 
If we're at the point where we haven't set up these boundaries there is still a mess to clean up. That mess will be there.God has a plan. God will forgive us. We need to turn from our ways and turn to Him for forgiveness.

Side Note: Don't get the idea that sex is a foundation for a relationship. The relationship is more like the forms and needs to be set before sex. Sex is not a foundation-Christ is our foundation.. 

1 Corinthians 3:11

11 For no man can lay a foundation other than the one which is laid, which is Jesus Christ.

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