All men have issues. The issues that I'm focused on now have to do with a man's past. Our past has an effect on not only our present but also our future. The past could have to do with a disconnect from our dad. It could be influence from friends or even influence from the society we live in. More sons today live without a dad present in their life than at any other time in the US history- this creates problems. One of these problems is that a mom tries to do more than she is equipped to do. Another "past" problem is not being connected with other men- there is no such thing as a self-made man. All men have accomplished goals only with the help of others. Being connected to other men means much more than discussing the weather or sports- it's much deeper than that. It involves commitment and trust which take time.The world is short sighted and overcoming issues involves planning. Developing a plan to succeed. One issue all men are born with can't be overcome by anything in this world. Only God can fill this void caused by sin and selfishness.

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